Re: [討論] 婚後除夕在哪邊過?已回收
找個願意溝通的另一半 這種事會輕鬆很多
我就是今年除夕要回娘家吃年夜飯的太太
我先生也要跟我一起回娘家
而我們去年除夕是在夫家吃 今年在娘家吃我覺得很合情合理
也說好明年就在他家吃 後年再來我家吃...這樣這樣
至於初二 我們就兩邊跑
因為剛好兩家的飯局錯開 (一午一晚)
一天吃兩攤我覺得很不錯
初三之後就未定 看我先生想繼續待他家或是拜訪親戚
或是安排個外縣市的小旅行 或是直接回我們小窩休息 都可以討論
看到某些台男的言論 突然覺得我先生真是好棒棒..><
回應某些傳統論
過年回家吃年夜飯不一定是傳統 有時候只是想和家人感受年節氣氛
就算是真為了傳統好了 自己做和要求別人做也是差很多的
「我重視除夕,所以我要和我爸媽吃年夜飯」和
「我重視除夕,所以你要跟我一起回去和我爸媽吃年夜飯」
這兩者的差別 應該不難看出來吧!
至於除夕到底重不重要 都是看人
你覺得重要 你的配偶也可能覺得重要 那你沒有理由剝奪他和父母吃年夜飯的權利
你覺得不重要 那又何必要求你的配偶一定要陪你回家呢?
說到底 就是不要強迫另一半
除夕也可以推至其他節日 中秋端午清明等等..
最簡便的方式是夫妻各自過啦
但有些人覺得夫妻應該一起過節卡有fu 那就應該是用商量討論的
找出一個雙方都覺得舒服的方式
而不是說「夫妻要一起過,所以你要跟我過」
(不過有這樣想法的人還挺不少的:p)
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我先生結婚前就說小孩跟我姓也可以 沒差
我覺得這都可以討論 但別硬性規定該怎麼做
本來小孩姓氏就是由父母共同決定 而不是誰說了算
※ 編輯: paopaotw (118.166.170.228), 01/24/2017 16:37:06
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