Re: [討論] 一定要愛小孩嗎?消失
抱歉,原文恕刪。
我同意母愛可能的確非天生,有人就是不愛小孩。我也曾經很討厭小孩。
但當孩子被生出來了,愛孩子我覺得是一種"責任",無關喜歡討厭。
就像是我們可以自己選擇一段感情,但不是因為不愛了就劈腿,就擺爛,而是對自己的
感情負起責任,要嘛攤牌要嘛分手要嘛努力,但不是逃避。
原文的媽媽逃避她照顧孩子的責任,這才是問題,而不是就不愛啊,就不喜歡啊。
很多時候,很多事情,我們根據喜歡不喜歡做選擇,的確,我們有選擇的權利,我們可以
選擇要不要,喜歡不喜歡,但一但選擇了,就伴隨著責任。
而責任,不再是喜歡不喜歡,要不要承擔的問題,而是「必須」承擔,必須負責。
原文的媽媽選擇成為媽媽,她就必須為她的孩子負責,沒有不想照顧,不喜歡小孩...
責任是沒有藉口可以逃避的。
還有千萬不要以為孩子有吃有喝有人照顧就叫做負責(抱頭)...
將生養責任丟給他人是最不負責任的事啊Orz
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