[閒聊] 傷人的鼓勵
幾個月前
我和我男朋友看完電影"愛上野豬妹"後
他突然有感而發的對我說...
他:妳會不會覺得很奇怪?為什麼妳長的這麼不漂亮,我還會跟妳在一起?
我:呃...?!(錯愕中,我的直覺告訴我,他等下一定會講一些讓我不舒服的話)
他:其實啊...我以前交的女朋友說真的都比妳正,身材也不錯
我:....
他:在跟妳見面的前一天(我們是經由同事介紹認識的),我有去跟其他女孩子見面
要比長相的話,她是90分,妳大概只有60...
我:....(不錯啦!還有及格喔...?!)
他:那女生也對我蠻有好感的,可是我卻選擇了妳,妳知道為什麼嗎?
我:為什麼?
他:因為妳看起來乖乖的,感覺比較會顧家...blablabla...(後面還有一長串我忘了)
我:....(黃臉婆的特質是嗎?!)
他:雖然我朋友都說我的眼光變低了,只要是女生都好,不過我還是能看出妳的好
我:....(其實這時候我心裡已經酸到不行了)
他:所以人長得醜還是有她的優點啊~~相處是要看內在的,所以妳要有自信一點!
我:嗯...
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之後他送到我停摩托車的地方
下車時還不忘提醒我要往正面想,要對自己有自信
我苦笑的點點頭
然後騎車回家時,眼淚一直狂流...
雖然是鼓勵的話,但我聽起來卻是傷人至極
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