Re: [討論] 當你遇到這種情況..
我想原PO說的情況我不敢說百分之百,
但至少五、六成的人都遇過這種情況,
這也是很典型的學長學弟制,
有一部分的人就是喜歡在系隊裡否定學弟,
甚至在不練球的時候也以學長的姿態說話,
我想這是每個團體都會遇到的現象,
原O遇到的也不是特殊情況,
校隊中這種情況更加明顯,
教練當然對你都是好言好語,
但是學長並沒有這種社會責任,
還要負責照顧你幼小的心靈,
說實話,你不來練球他也無所謂,
再說到在場上罵人的部分,
我自認是個個性很好的人,
但是場上情況緊張的時候,
大家的專業素養都不足夠,
心裡又比誰都還要著急,
難免說話心直口快會直接罵出來,
或許原PO的學長本身就是個雞掰咖,
但在團體裡就是有這種人,
你保持平常心不要理會他的冷嘲熱諷,
如果因為這種事就逃避這個團體,
我覺得不是最妥當的做法,
我也知道學長不是你老闆,
但是人際關係的處理不是一天就學會的
要等遇到這種老闆再學嘛?
那我想你的痛苦會比現在多上好幾倍。
講講自身經驗好了,
我大一的時候系隊還不成氣候,
學長大概頂多只有七八個人,
那時候對系隊充滿熱情,
每次練球都超認真的,
但我記得第一次打大X盃的時候,
報名名單硬是迸出一堆沒看過了人,
摸摸鼻子就認了 想說都是學長,
更誇張的是大家都知道大X盃
一天打個三,四場是正常的,
可是那時候我可是坐到後補都抽筋了,
我跟我同學就是沒得上場......
但也熬過來了。
只能跟原PO說 好好處理,熬過去就出頭天了
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