Re: [幼教] 四歲的小孩超級不專心
先感謝大家給我的建議,每一個回覆和推文我都看完了
現在的感想是...我放心多了,他真的就是不想做不喜歡的事
應該不是感覺統合還是什麼其他的大問題,當然專注力不夠是肯定的
今天還是因為寫作業的問題,跟他從五點磨到快七點
一把作業本拿出來,這小子就開始生氣。說他討厭我,明天也不要去上學了
看他氣成那樣委屈成那樣,我真的有心軟想說不寫就算了
可是我現在可以叫他不寫沒關係,那小學呢?國中呢?
我這樣會養成他不喜歡就放棄的壞習慣嗎?
我能夠保護他照顧他一輩子,讓他只做喜歡的事嗎?
看起來我是做不到的,只好半哄半騙,軟硬兼施。終於最後是寫完了
他寫到一半時問我:媽咪,如果我乖乖寫完,你會很愛我嗎?
真叫人心疼,我跟他說:不管你有沒有寫完,媽咪都很愛你,但如果你乖乖寫完我會很高興
我有跟幼稚園老師說過作業的問題,老師是跟小孩說:在家不乖乖寫,那就來老師家寫
今天放學時也和老師打勾勾說會好好寫作業
但回家後就開始賴皮,甚至說他沒有跟老師打勾勾,他沒有答應要好好寫作業
喔,他作業的內容...就是36格的數字或注音
他今天是寫36個ㄛ...格子裡面有虛線可以描的
我不知道這是否對一個四歲小孩來說負擔太大
但小孩身邊的人而言,我可能算是標準很寬鬆了
今天好不容易寫完作業,我婆婆還問我有沒有把寫不好的擦掉叫他重寫
老人家就是這樣,他覺得要從小就訓練好...可是我老公字明明很醜阿
越扯越多....
總之,看完大家的討論...我好像有點收穫,也會努力找出一個平衡點
讓小孩可以跟上幼稚園的生活規範,又不要寫作業寫的那麼痛苦
再次謝謝大家了
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