Re: [心得] 痛苦的調適期 謝謝建議
我現在博二
回這文或許有人會覺得你才博二會不會太早了
不過原po有些事情我確實心有戚戚焉
我在這快兩年的博士就讀期間
曾經連續使用電腦超過20小時導致眼壓過高
也曾經兩次因為連續三天沒有睡然後暈倒在客廳和書房
然後看著自己大學同學一個一個找到工作
自己還在為了那一紙學位的題目和點數傷腦筋
一直處於心情很低落狀態
有一段時間還有酗酒
我記得以前碩士班老闆有和我說過
求取學問的過程是一條很孤單的路
在這條路上你必須要獨自調適的能力
並且能夠讓大家知道你到底在做甚麼
但事實上我周遭沒有人念過博士班
我是我整個家族裡面第一個碰到這學位的人
所以每個人都以為念博士班就和念大學一樣
修課完就可以畢業
我曾經因為清明節那天要趕一篇文章沒法回去掃墓
被我父親罵的豬狗不如然後躲在房間裡面痛哭
現在我為了我母親期待還去修了教育學程
我一學期20學分
還有兼課8堂
每學期給自己固定目標1篇期刊投稿
說了那麼一堆
其實算是在發牢騷吧
還有很多不過打出來太花時間
每個博士生在念書過程中一定會碰到許多挫折
然後有很多外加壓力會開始慢慢加諸自己身上
找出一條能夠排解的道路很重要
我自己是去登山
把自己弄得累得半死
這樣就甚麼都不會去想
登山過程中也可以讓自己和外界短暫失去接觸
對於自己的博士班生涯我會有自己的堅持
我相信很多人也是這樣
身體的話沒有人可以幫忙
一定要自己照顧
我想鬱悶是一階段一階段
每一階段的鬱悶也需要各種方式去調適
但千萬不要因為鬱悶就對自己產生懷疑
一點心得分享
加油
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