[請益] 該怎麼和我媽媽和解?
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先簡單講一下我的情況好了
我的父母在分別在他們19歲和18歲時認識,三個月後結婚(我媽懷孕,但打掉)
兩年後我出生,五年後我妹也呱呱墜地
一對年輕的父母想必問題不少
我八歲時兩個人離婚,監護權歸我媽,而我再見到我的父親是八年後了
而我媽也在我國三時再婚,同年我那個同母異父的弟弟出生
高一時因為一些小事大吵了一架,彼此不說話將近半年
高一上學期末,她對我說:我管不住你了,你去找你爸吧
當時我並不以為意,因為我認為我又沒做錯什麼事
隔天下課我就發現所有的東西都被打包好了,父親也來了
至於過程就略過吧,有機會再和大家聊聊
七年過了,到現在我大學要畢業了,我和母親沒有任何聯絡
國小到大學十六年階段,八年沒見過父親,七年沒見過母親
我不幸嗎?沒經濟壓力有地方住有人養我
其實他們也都建建康康活得好好的,比我更不幸的人多的是
但這幾年來我一直想,為什麼我要承擔上一輩的錯誤呢?
直到最近我的心境產生一些變化
我表哥的老婆,一個很照顧我的大嫂,上個禮拜出車禍去天堂了
生命是如此的無常,我的人生第一次感受到
我首先想到的是母親,我突然好想她
但我仍然無法釋懷那些直到現在我認為很過分的事
如此矛盾的情緒在我心底翻滾一陣子了,我好怕再也見不到她了
我媽有個移民到美國的多年好友,她對我說:just call her
說來簡單,事實上也很簡單,花個幾秒就做到了,但我就是無法面對那些回憶
請問我該怎麼和我的母親和好呢?
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