[閒聊] 女友願望是當家庭主婦?
前幾天和女友莫名其妙就帶進這話題
雖然目前根本未達適婚年齡也沒有結婚的打算 (還是學生)
但老實說聽到這樣的想法讓我心驚驚而且不舒服
女友有兩點堅持
1. "未來目標當家庭主婦帶小孩"
2. "養家是男人的責任"
先不論經濟壓力一個人撐有多重
當家庭主婦要把一個家整頓好有多累會是一個爭議點,每個人就不同了。
我把環境弄到自己覺得舒適 (掃地擦地洗衣倒垃圾等等) 是兩小時就能搞定的事。
再來把勞累程度往上加可能就多出買菜做菜洗碗,再多辛苦一點吧
如果多了小孩,小孩接受義務教育前如果打算自己帶,勞累程度可想而知,可以體諒
但若小孩進入義務教育之後呢? 每天多閒下來的時間可以拿來做甚麼? 聊天上網購物? XD
小孩進入義務教育正常是7歲,假如生兩個相差2歲,29歲生第一胎,算下來38歲
時可能就半天都閒著,而且已經沒工作整整9年,豈不是毫無生產力?
到時家庭主婦的生活到底會是怎樣? 會很累嗎?
我原生家庭是雙薪家庭,環境照樣好好的,大家共同分擔
何必分那麼清楚 "XX是誰的責任",搞得像推卸責任一樣
我最不爽的更在於,女友以這個為目標,總覺得有 "找長期飯票" 的感覺在
特別是她其他方面又不是多傳統,偏偏這方面挑個有利自己的傳統,很令人不舒服...
請問各位男性覺得公平嗎? 愛她就不要計較這種話我都是聽聽就好^^
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我也不覺得有對錯,感覺是對婚姻不同頻率
※ 編輯: uwontknowme 來自: 1.169.162.22 (05/17 17:47)
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