[新聞] 管不動女兒會網友 媽媽哭坐路邊報案消失
1.媒體來源:
蘋果日報
2.完整新聞標題:
管不動女兒會網友 媽媽哭坐路邊報案
3.完整新聞內文:
住台中市清水區的陳姓女子(22歲),昨中午要搭乘561次莒光號列車南下高雄,與網友
見面看展覽,陳母(48歲)不願女兒出遠門且擔心安危,在家中就百般阻止,但陳女不願
爽約執意前往,陳母騎著機車趕到車站攔阻不成後,坐在車站外的路邊哭泣,並且報警。
清水分局清水派出所據報趕到,將陳母帶回警所瞭解情況,陳母說,女兒不聽勸阻,打電
話又都不接聽,因此才報案,清水所警員又通報鐵路警察局大甲派出所處理。
大甲所員警趕到清水車站後,陳母又騎機車趕到,員警瞭解情況後,隨即透過無線電聯絡
到561次的列車長,列車長找到陳女後,轉知陳母希望她能夠回電,不過,陳女不理會列
車長;列車到了斗六站後,鐵路警察斗六所的員警也上車,跟陳女說,其母很擔心她,請
她回電,不過陳女仍相應不理,警員只好下車。
鐵路警察大甲所說,由於陳女已滿20歲,是完全行為能力人,警方沒有任何理由可阻陳女
南下,只能勸說,陳女不理會,警方也莫可奈何。陳母則在清水車站不斷向處理的員警訴
苦說:「女兒長大越來越不聽話」,員警一路陪伴傾聽一個多小時,陳母的情緒才平復。
弘光科大幼兒保育系助理教授趙蕙鈴表示,目前許多親子衝突多起源於彼此溝通不足,各
自解讀,以及缺乏同理心所致,陳母擔心女兒安危,但忘記同理女兒的心情,並可能以太
多的負向方式表達,結果反而讓女兒更堅持己見,也無法讓女兒真正了解母親的擔憂與內
心感受。
父母如能自子女年幼就善用同理心的溝通態度、運用良好的溝通技巧,可以在子女長大後
,仍能維持不錯的溝通品質。反之,如果子女已成年,建議父母適當表達自己的需求和內
心感受,減少一味地指責與管制,反而可以增強子女願意自己負責,甚至會試著調整自己
,努力讓父母放心,這是一種可以改善親子關係的策略。(孫義方/台中報導)
4.完整新聞連結 (或短網址):
http://goo.gl/hh4PhW
http://www.appledaily.com.tw/realtimenews/article/local/20160829/937931
5.備註:
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