[請益] 女友超級堅持不改改情狀態
性別:男生
(男/女) ->發問者性別
問題類型:情侶相處
(個人魅力提昇/認識/追男/追女/情侶相處/分手中(後)/其他)
自己個性:心思細膩 容易想很多 在愛情上稍缺安全感
(請以20字內敘述自己的個性):
對方個性:喜歡認真過每一天 慢熱 稍微不善social
(請以20字內敘述對方的個性):
(若是追男追女,請註明雙方如何認識。如同班同學、同事、社團、街頭搭訕......)
1.問題背景:至今正式交往十天,原本想要求公開感情狀態,但被非常堅持的反對
2.目前狀況:一開始希望在雙方fb上掛上與彼此穩定交往中,但女友非常反
對,但理由像是不希望別人打擾清幽的約會﹑說是一個我不需要昭告天下就能獨享的人
因為我覺得改動態在一起好像不久之後都會分.......等等,都不是很讓我能夠接受,
我跟她說我有我的考量,希望在新的男生剛認識她時能夠知道她有男朋友比較不會有
非分之想。但女友始終堅持還說她哭了(在FB上講)。目前吵這個吵到天翻地覆,後
來女朋友還說我非常強迫她,讓她壓力很大,為什麼我跟你說我不知所措的哭了你還是
很堅持。還說看到她哭了應該先安慰她而不是繼續問。現在她說她累了先去睡了改天再
討論。
3.我的疑問:我真的很不能夠理解她超級堅持不改的原因,能請各位幫幫我這個忙嗎?是我
哪裡要求太過分,還是女生真的都不想改?
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