Re: 小孩跟誰姓？
其實齁 原PO的問題很好解決
妳說妳就是在父權下成長
所以想要打破這個觀念
而妳提到 妳覺得姓名只是個ID 姓什麼妳並不在意
那麼妳可以把妳的姓改成跟你男友一樣
妳可能會想說 "為什麼是我改不是他改?"
因為覺得姓名不重要的是妳 別人不一定覺得不重要 那就妳改吧
改成一樣的有什麼好處呢?
1.妳打破了在妳身上承襲的父權遺毒姓氏
2.男友不需要跟家人吵架撕破臉
3.男友跟自己 還有小孩 全都姓一樣的 一家樂融融 不會起爭議
未來如果有人叫妳 陳太太(假設妳男友姓陳)
妳也不會因為父權社會導致妳原本姓林而被叫成陳太太 因為妳改姓陳了
以上可以說百利而無一害呢!
給妳參考~
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就改成配偶的姓阿 配偶是中性詞彙 很平等的
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