[求助] 男友對我有愛嗎
跟男友非遠距離,一週見2-3次
男友平常比較粗神經,不太貼心,嘴笨(?),不喜歡通話,不太會講甜言蜜語
但吵架的時候倒是很會辯論
因男友空閒時間較少,他平日有運動課程,假日也時常安排其他事,所以我配合他時間較
多
我覺得男友是比較自我的人(跟朋友講過幾個例子,他們也覺得),所以常常覺得感受不
到他的愛,問他有什麼行為是在意我的表現,他說我生氣的時候願意對我解釋(解釋為何
這麼做,不是故意惹怒我,理由很多),再繼續追問,得到的都是生氣才會有所表現的答
案(所以我平常相處沒感覺到是正常的?)
最近吵架我生氣就說以後平日不要見面了,假日再約,他說ok,還說我不喜歡的事他不勉
強我
我本來覺得他這話也有賭氣成分,過幾天冷靜後,再跟他提見面頻率的問題,現在改為1-
2週見一次,有事不見也ok(變第3週再見),他也很接受…
請問這是我跟他價值觀的不同而已嗎?
喜歡一個人可以不常通話不常見面嗎?
有人也有跟個性較自我的對象相處過嗎?有辦法改變嗎?
請給我點意見,謝謝大家
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謝謝大家回應
這麼直接的感受到跟他個性不合蠻難過的 畢竟我是想認真走下去 但一方面也覺得如果我
總是覺得他不喜歡我的話 應該也無法一直交往下去
男友平常也不是沒主見的人
不知道為何跟我相處就是沒意見
所以會讓我覺得他好像不是很有心
※ 編輯: wyc6666 (101.15.71.48), 07/14/2017 11:01:45
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