Re: [求助] 請問我是不是長得很醜?
※ 引述《ParaTuAmor (ParaTuAmor)》之銘言:
: 從小我就知道我是個大餅臉
: 但在三年前我喜歡上一個男生,他是我的同事
: 完全是我高攀不起的人啊!
: 我已經33歲,私校法文系肄業,月入只有3w,沒房沒車,存款為0
: 除了被說長相醜之外,年紀大、學歷低、沒錢、沒身材……
: 而我這位同事也完全不想理我
: 他覺得我很煩
: 收入低、沒房沒車沒存款、其貌不揚的老女人
: 是不是就該認命一點,寂寞寂寞就好?
: 以下是殘酷的真相
: http://i.imgur.com/uMkQQnr.jpg
客觀說,個人認為外表上沒有什麼問題,
甚或男女到了個年紀不少都是看個性的,能夠認知皮相終歸虛妄,
或許妳不認同,不過沒關係,也只是一提而已;
那麼要是說外表上沒有太大問題,那問題會在哪?
稍為爬了下妳的文,
必須說,光是看文章我就能感受到那種無形的壓力從螢幕上鋪天蓋地而來,
而且說穿了妳的心思也並不是那麼"從一而終",
心裡頭的念想也是一日三變轉來換去的,遇到妳這樣我也不知道怎麼相處,
妳說妳暗戀一個前同事三年吧(2014,6月),
2014,2月,
還有男友,
http://i.imgur.com/iwzokoS.png
gay哥說不用客氣,不用生日禮謝謝,
http://i.imgur.com/7wLuXTE.png
...設身處地想一下,
有個男的4月跟女友分手後馬上整天纏著妳,7月告白被妳拒絕,
然後馬上找了個大陸妹交往到12月覺得不合適然後繼續纏著你,
一直到三年後再次表白一樣被妳打槍,結果他上網黑妳說妳母豬,
其實這中間他還陸續在O2[徵女],
我就想問問看妳還是其他網友心裡感覺會是怎樣??
還有一開始說的心思翻來覆去也是容易造成讓人無法信任的原因,
2017,4月,
"我未曾貶抑過自己"
http://i.imgur.com/Rw9uHvW.png
看來心理療程效果還是因人而異。
加油吧,重點不是外表。
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