Re: [求助] 跟女友的父親相處上的問題
※ 引述《stratos1111 (stratos)》之銘言:
我記得多年前在這個板上看過一個故事,只是性別調換
那故事是女生跟男友、男友長輩共四人去吃燒肉
席間兩個小時,女生就是一直烤肉給所有人吃,她自己吃不到5塊肉,出來帳還是自己結
後來才知道,其實對方家長都有看在眼裡,知道她根本沒吃
拿這故事問原po
(1) 你覺得男方家長是吃到一半才發現女生沒吃,還是一入座就開始注意女方?
(2) 如果今天是你,你會願意整場負責燒肉做陪客嗎?
我覺得原po沒有搞清楚自己和女生爸爸之間的關係
今天對方不是來認識你,而是來考驗你
他不是你的平輩,他是這場考試的考官
看你在面對長輩的刁難時會怎麼反應
看你能不能為了娶到我女兒而耐住性子低聲下氣
等你真的通過考驗,他才會真正的來認識你、跟你交陪
你現在只想改變女生爸爸對你的態度根本放錯重點
你要擔心的是,對方爸爸不接受你當他女婿
更甚者,社會經驗比你多的女友也不出來幫你,你更應該擔心你的表現是不是也讓女友覺
得你不適合嫁
但你擔心自己被當哈巴狗
還想著要借長輩來助長自己的氣勢……
你要做的是買條爸爸喜歡的菸和酒去討交情
扳回氣勢和顏面,那得等到對方承認你是他們家人之後的事
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我自己本身朋友就是一個案例
他們大學同學交往4年,女方爸爸是軍人退休現在在做生意
別說男友被「定」得多慘,我們這些同性的女生朋友,初次見面都被全身掃過
你要說這種「測試」很智障嗎?
偏偏這個社會上,會這樣倚老賣老的長輩們還不少
※ 編輯: sinomin (61.227.98.150), 06/20/2016 10:30:39
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我沒記錯的話,那篇文章是兩人分手後PO的
但是女生有提到,分手後,男方家長很不諒解男生不好好把握住女生
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※ 編輯: sinomin (61.227.98.150), 06/20/2016 10:46:06
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