Re: [求助] 即將要結婚,卻要面臨退不退婚問題
先說這是我個人的看法
我看到文中的描述,男方是個在感情上
非常坦誠的人。他有幾任女友、跟前女友聯絡
直白表示他仍會持續聯絡,完全坦白光明正大
這個點,有點像是他的逆鱗或是信仰之類的(都下跪了),
如果自己做不到這點(照顧好初戀),好像會對自己信念產生懷疑?
我發現 女性很喜歡測量 或說是挑戰 自己另一半對自己喜歡的層度
EX:我跟你媽掉進海裡 你先救誰 ?
贏了:高興 ! 卻又覺得理所當然~
輸了:輸了 怨念開始累積
本來就不是能比較 也禁不起比較的東西
贏了 不見得是贏 輸了 永遠 都輸
原PO的妹妹現在的行為 就是硬要把自己的愛情觀
加諸到男方身上
只是不好意思 他不吃這一套
他到底是不是個可以信任的對象,原PO的妹妹絕對比鄉民還清楚。
不過我個人還滿欣賞這男生這點的,就像遊戲中說的
承君此諾,必守一生
女生常說 男人沒一個好東西、男人都是騙子,答應的承諾
永遠無法做到。
只是,當一個男人 他重視承諾 誠實且坦白
她卻又無法接受
只因為這個承諾 給的不是自己
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