[求助] 該結婚嗎?
看板Boy-Girl作者ohsweetlove (ohsweetlove)時間10年前 (2014/03/22 18:57)推噓42(46推 4噓 52→)留言102則, 57人參與討論串1/5 (看更多)
跟目前男友交往五年多快六年
之前在上研究所前 男友爸覺得時間也差不多 應該可以結婚了
但是我研究所一直很忙 所以男友就一直告訴家人緩一緩
終於念完兩年半 也覺得差不多 他們家就來提親
在提親前 很多細節都先跟男友談得差不多 男友也一直說 媽媽說一切配合女方
提親過程很順利 男友媽一直叫我不要有壓力 我也覺得應該會很順利
誰知道 爆點才正要開始
首先 他們算日子 他媽算完立刻打電話跟我說
ㄟ 算出某月某天是好日子 我剛去問飯店也OK 那應該沒問題吧
我回說 我要問我媽媽 但我心想 你也要挑幾個日子讓我們選
怎麼可以只講一天 然後還跟我說飯店也問好 難道我不需要時間準備跟請新秘嗎
然後我就打電話去跟我男友 生氣的說 明明就跟你說好我要11月訂婚
農曆年後才 結婚 結果 他媽媽盧很久才說 12月那天男友弟要上班 不行
很多賓客也要上班 所以才選11月
之後 他們吵著吵著 男友爸說 ㄟ 你們結婚之後搬去四樓住
(現在男友弟和弟媳婦 和兩個小孩 都和男友爸媽住 因為經濟關係.....)
然後我男友說 ㄟ 之前有跟你們說好 婚後要去外面租屋
他媽又開始暴走 說 房子那麼大 之後你弟搬出去 空在那 不是很奇怪嗎?
於是....................就開始一直鬧
從提親到現在 不知道是不是因為他們跟我太熟 所以完全沒尊重我的意見
讓我覺得很受傷 此外,我也真的不想跟這麼多人住在一起
兩個小孩子在家 老實說 每次去他家都睡不好 >"<
婚期 擅自決定 婚後又要跟他們家住在一起
從提親後 到現在 我一直忍住不哭 因為我覺得 完全沒有被尊重的感覺
大家覺得 我還要結婚嗎? >"<
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