Re: [心情] 結婚怎麼這麼難
我po上面那篇其實沒有引戰的意思,
只是一個自我抒發...
我覺得人都是自私的, 包括我自己的家人都是.
雖然我們家從小就衣食無虞, 沒有負債,
但是父母還是經常為了錢的事情吵架...
甚至到現在, 每次只要一回家,
我媽總會跟我抱怨我爸賺的薪水從沒交給她過...
說隔壁誰誰誰的先生總是將每分錢都給太太....
昨天我單獨跟我媽在討論結婚的事情時,
她又再次的提到此事,
於是我就跟我媽說, 為了避免以後有妳們這樣的情況,
我已經打算結婚後將所有錢都交由老婆管...
因為我不希望結婚後的家庭跟我原生家庭那樣, 時常爭吵...
事實上我現在已經在這樣做了, 平常我個人算節省, 沒有太大的物慾,
所有賺來的錢扣掉房租後通通存進女友的個人戶頭,
從去年中開始到現在, 累積了十多萬...
我們約定好這些錢先當結婚基金,
等到結婚後所有錢還是會全部交給她管....
當然這些事我都沒告訴我媽,
只是提到說婚後我會這樣做而已,
沒想到我媽聽了之後非常反對, 說現在離婚率那麼高...blah blah
要為自己留個後路... blah blah 不然如果離婚就什麼都沒有了... blah blah...
連我媽都有這樣現實且矛盾的想法了,
所以我自己其實沒有責怪女友或女友家裡的意思,
只是覺得很煩... 為什麼每個家長都是如此,
認為自己的小孩才是最好的, 別人家的小孩都永遠不及格...
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