[心情] 結婚怎麼這麼難
原po是男生, 今年28歲, 目前在台北工作,
有個同齡的女友, 已經交往一年半了.
雙方見過對方家長很多次,
最近感情穩定, 兩個人都希望關係能更進一步,
預計明年(2014)結婚.
其實去年我就已經在為結婚的事情做打算,
那時先買了一間房子(預售屋), 並付了頭期款,
今年底完工後就要開始背房貸了.
但女友家裡希望我不要有房貸, 不然會讓她們倍感壓力,
所以我昨天返鄉過年, 向家裡透露我想結婚的事情,
並跟父母討論看看是否能幫忙我房貸的事情,
等我賺到足夠的錢後再還給他們.
結果他們認為我已經在工作, 有穩定的收入,
應該要自己負擔房貸的事情,
並說他們當初結婚的時候什麼也沒有,
靠著自己打拼才有現在小康的家庭.
還說如果女友家認為有房子且沒貸款才可以嫁的話,
這樣太過現實, 乾脆別娶了....
我兩三年前也曾遇到類似的事情,
那時候交往過一個女生, 但對方父母直接嫌我沒房子,
最後感情因而告吹.
所以這一次我以為有了房子應該已經足夠,
沒想到現在為了這個房貸的事情...
讓我非常苦惱.
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