[寶寶] 巧虎說的 "一起玩",是真的嗎?
最近帶寶寶一起看巧虎,
裡面提到,可以跟其他小朋友說:"我們一起玩!"
然後對方就會說:"好!"
於是大家就玩在一塊兒,變成好朋友了。
現實生活中,
我的小孩2歲了,
不管是去親子館還是親子餐廳,
從來沒遇過這種情況。
因為我的小孩還不太會講話,
根本不可能說出:我們一起玩,這麼困難的句子。
所以每次我帶他出去玩時,都會一直跟在他身邊,
除了保護他的安全之外,也隨時觀察他和其他小朋友的互動。
到目前為止,我發現這個年齡的小朋友,只會互相搶玩具,
3~4歲的小孩又很喜歡欺負1~2歲的小小孩。
之前到親子餐廳,
時常會遇到很鴨霸的小孩,
明明我們先在玩的,
他就會擠進來說:"這是我的!"
然後完全不讓我小孩碰任何東西。
我忍住脾氣,露出微笑地說:"大家一起玩呀!"
得到的答覆永遠是:不要!" 或是"我不想跟他一起玩!"
媽媽我的心都碎了...ORZ
現在我只能安慰自己:還好我的小孩還聽不太懂別人在說什麼,
不然,聽到別人不想跟自己玩,就算是小孩子也會受傷吧!
到底,巧虎教的"一起玩",在現實生活中可能發生嗎?
(之前在親子餐廳,有大我小孩2~3歲左右的小女孩一直搶他的玩具,
後來我叫我的小孩把玩具"讓"給姊姊玩,教他"分享",
結果對方拿到玩具後,還是甚麼都不讓我的小孩碰,
讓我覺得自己根本是一個白癡。禮尚往來的概念,對小孩子根本不適用...)
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