Re: [求助] 婆媳問題調停消失
私以為
南部老人說帶小孩回去 23天
應該是用台語講的吧?
如果當初是用台語講
那老人那邊就沒有錯
是年輕媽媽自己誤會
因為台語的23天並不是國語中明確的2-3天的意思
而是泛指 好幾天
舉例
國中小孩去朋友家玩
媽媽 你要去玩呀,幫你準備23項“等路(泛指飲料,零食,小禮物)”去人刀 ,好沒
……
這裡的 23項等路 絕對不是只有2項或3項或23項
而是好幾項的泛稱
如果真是國語中的2-3天就送寶寶回去
台語表達會是
我帶小孩去南部,按算後日 井崩 再多一眠 就帶回來
不會用 23工 這種說法
所以當北部媽媽同意 23工
事後姑婆表示星期三帶回而媽媽反對時
老人一定認為媽媽出爾反爾
內心
如果媽媽真覺得小孩離不開
怎麼會同意一歲小孩跟姑婆,阿祖獨自相處(沒有媽媽在的情形)2-3天
能獨自相處2-3天,那再多2天到星期三又差在哪?
至於小孩用品,難道買不到?
顧一個月可能會花不少
只帶回去玩個5天
老人一般都會很捨得花錢的
反而問題在
飲食上糖果餅乾飲料冰品那些老人無限量供應而我們這種當媽的看到受不了
舉例,
我外出三天開會,請我娘幫忙顧一下自己4歲小孩
ㄉ開會到家後發現
我娘帶小孩去日月潭玩
一天內給她吃3次冰淇淋
遊覽車在休息站休息時一次
到日月潭岸邊看到 吧不 又一次
去餐廳吃飯時,在加點冰淇淋當飯後甜點又一次
聽到我一整個火大
當天就吵起來(因為是自己媽媽已,吵玩,事情就算了)
如果是婆婆,可能,……
以上,建立在老人用台語溝通
或老人平常習慣講台語,但特意跟孫媳婦用國語交代(但想法還是台語)時
若老人部分本身也都只用國語當語言工具,那老人出爾反爾臨時從2-3天延伸到5天就不對
了
講好的事臨時變卦這個很難接受
以上
我講台語我驕傲
23工 意指不特定的短日期
不一定只能是2天或3天
舉例一
訪友回家後發現外套遺留在朋友家
打電話給朋友
我外套忘記帶,過 23工 再去拿回來
這並沒有明確一定是後天或大後天過去朋友家,也可能是4天後才過去拿外套
舉例二
老闆,店裡還有……
沒現貨呀,那能幫我訂嗎?
過幾天,通知顧客貨到了
好,不過我明天忙,過2-3天去拿好嗎?
台語 23工 語法如同國語中的
那些年發生的 三兩 事
不過,有人推文說
2-3天只能是2天或3天這2種情形
你說的對
https://i.imgur.com/VxQBoI1.jpg
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