[求助] 無解的人生
1. 對於婚姻中發生的問題徵求建議與解決的方法。
2. 須明確描述問題的前因後果與現況。
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結婚一年多,最近小孩剛滿兩個月,因為老婆的大姐於保險公司上班,本人妹婿也從事保
險業,近日我妹表示有擬ㄧ份醫療險,要讓我們夫妻參考,放假時有告知老婆,妹婿有擬
保險讓我們參考,在上班時雙方用通訊軟體對談,老婆向我稱自己已先行向大姐保小孩的
保險了。
老婆表示因為怕我不開心,所以沒告訴我直接跟大姐保險,數日後因為過意不去覺得隱瞞
我不好才主動告訴我。
雙方目前因為保險吵架中,我的理由是不管讓誰保,是否應先告知,因為本人工作繁忙結
訂婚妹妹及妹婿都很幫忙,所以我私心想讓她們保。但老婆直接講白,自己的姐
姐很照顧自己跟自己相處30年,保險只是買一個保障(所以她就要讓她保)括弧是她沒說
出來我自己補腦的。
目前老婆表示我很自私都為自己,妹妹知道後也在哭。
吵架中她回文內容如下:
我不能跟大姐買保險?我是拿了你的錢嗎?跟你說那麼多廢話,在你心裡就是覺得我比較
偏袒我家人,你試著體諒我的心情嗎?你只顧慮小姑的感受
後來隔天早上又傳訊息跟我說可以跟小姑買一份儲蓄險但也留下一些話(我已經不想再跟
你溝通事情該怎麼處理 小姑那邊你愛怎麼做就怎麼做 我不想講了 在你心裡我就是認定
我是局外人 你捍衛你的家人 這樣感受 已經讓我失望透了)
請教各位鄉民,我老婆到底內心在想什麼,各位有什麼建議?麻煩各位了。
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