[代Po] 婚姻中性生活的重要度
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我今年三十出頭,在去年我生了我的兒子
和外子從認識到結婚並不長,但感覺出來他很呵護我保護我
所以選擇了他和我一起走進婚姻
我們關係互動都非常好,只是在性生活上有一半機率必須我主動就是了
決定結婚後不久我就懷孕了,因為也已經準備結婚,所以大家也開心接受並期待寶寶到來
但從懷孕看到寶寶在肚子揮動四肢的超音波後,我老公不再碰我了
即便醫生告訴他正常性生活不會影響到寶寶,但害怕傷到寶寶的他仍拒絕
接著我度過了近十個月無性的生活,因為懷孕關係或許內分泌吧...
我開始想他是不是不愛我?腦中小劇場每天晚上播放著...
生完兒子後,開始沒日沒夜照顧新生兒
慢慢也快一年了
因為是全母奶寶寶他非常黏我,半夜也仍會討奶
但我在忙錄的育嬰生活中覺得好空虛...
在半夜奶睡兒子後看著床上另一半的他突然覺得好遠好孤單...
他是個很好的爸爸和老公
完全不讓我擔心任何事情,家事一手包辦
甚至連簡單洗碗和晾衣服都不要我做
他說我只要顧好兒子就好,其他事情他來沒關係
回到家第一件事就是洗乾淨手抱兒子
甚至有人說我在家顧孩子輕鬆他上班好累,外子也會跳出來說
顧孩子才是最累的工作!半夜不能睡覺是件非常累的事!!
只要我開口,他一定想辦法做到
我想吃什麼?他煮
想去哪?開車載我去
雖然不會甜言蜜語哄我開心
對我真的非常的呵護
但是....
他不會碰我...
他不會抱我親我更別提主動要幹嘛...
我真的很厭惓每次都主動...
他也告訴我,他真的對性沒很大興趣
他會親我,在上班前的輕吻算的話...
我常告訴自己,我要知足!!
老公疼我,公公婆婆也疼我!!我真的超幸福了!!!!
在性這件事上難過真的太任性了
但是...人家不是說有愛才有性嗎?
他交往時雖然頻率不高但最少一個禮拜2-3次
現在一個月大概2-3次還是我主動...
我們才結婚不久...這樣下去不就未來可能一年才一二次...
是否就這樣接受無性的婚姻...
是我沒事找事做...還是性在婚姻也是很重要...?
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