[心情] 為房子登記而爭吵的過往消失
幾年前剛跟先生結婚不久就懷孕了,本來兩人是在外租屋上班,為了讓孩子在好的環境生
活,於是就決定買一間房子。簽約的當時先生主動說登記我的名下,我覺得很窩心,因為
我自己的父母也是都登記給女方,覺得當作是女生的保障。但是後來公婆知道了後極力反
對登記女方,並且不斷說服我放棄,也不肯登記雙方共有,說什麼以後再買房會有稅金的
問題,然後因為我很堅持不退讓,到最後婆婆對我說了一堆難聽話,說她問他們的親戚,
大家都說笑死人了,哪有人在登記女方的,我都不敢跟他們說是我媳婦耶, 還說妳一定
是你媽慫恿你的吧!不然我看你乖乖的怎會這樣,這是我兒子的第一間房子當然要登記他
的,如果你要安全感跟保障,那你都不相信我兒子了我們為何要相信妳........。當時我
只一直流淚不語的聽婆婆說這些,最後她撇下一句,你不講話我就當你同意了,我會去查
登記誰那的! (補充一下,頭期款公婆自行借了三百多萬給先生,其餘部份由先生跟我共
同負擔,我年薪約7~80萬,房子1400多萬) 。
我想表達的是,後來我退讓了,因為先生為此事憂鬱憤恨不已,我不想讓他這樣所以就忍
了,可是從幾年前聽了婆婆那些話之後,我就一直記恨到現在,就算她現在總是一副客氣
樣,我怎樣都無法對她好了,覺得她好假,一副那些沒發生過的樣子,以前過節我都會送
禮盒,後來就沒有了,那些刺耳的話忘不了,一直想起來,這樣子會很過份嗎?該如何釋
懷?
是否同意記者抄文:NO
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