[閒聊] 離婚率這麼高家人須負一半責任消失
是否同意記者抄文:NO
抱歉這是抒發文,不喜勿入
因為懷孕所以在30週左右跟先生搬回他家住,現在要36週了(其實也回來沒兩個月~)
有時會來版上看看大家的情況,發現很多跟自己很像的問題。覺得現在離婚率這麼高,家
人(包含祖宗十八代,不是只有公婆)真的須負一半責任!
公婆是好人,也把我當自己小孩,但....真的不是融不融入的問題,每個人的生長環境不
同養成的習慣不同不融入是正常!!
但卡在要做自己還是改變自己真的很煩!
Ex:吃飯這種小事有時就讓我很頭痛。婆婆可能是職業主婦的關係,三餐總是準時澎湃上
桌,但有次家庭聚會中餐吃到三點多才回家,五點就又開始張羅晚餐.....真的讓我壓力
很大啊~~
不吃他們又會擔心,不想讓他們擔心又逼自己吃,吃了心情跟腸胃都很痛苦。
然後,本來在外面住時先生跟英雄一樣,什麼事都能做、都很帥,怎麼ㄧ回家就退化啊!
什麼都不想做不想思考,本來計畫要看房子年底買,之前都會自己找資料問房仲,瞬間失
憶了一樣連591都不會用了!裝傻?!
吃飯發出超大聲音還翹腳!好啦~這算小事,但怎麼會連魚都無法吃啊!!那天婆婆煮了
一種陌生的魚,吃了發現刺有點多(比吳郭魚多比虱目魚少),結果竟然叫我跟公公把魚
吃完,因為他兒子不吃刺這麼多的魚!平平就是一組舌頭有差這麼多??!
奇怪!之前餵他兒子吃虱目魚秋刀魚不真是好險他平安!
我承認我脾氣不是很好,但平心而論將心比心我也是有,所以把公婆當自己爸媽愛,只是
要真的像在自己家真的很難啊!抱怨、牢騷真的難免。但有時候男生都不會認真看待這些
牢騷,覺得我們只是說說,沒這麼嚴重,於是敷衍了事。
拜託,多用點心認真聽並聽進心裡好嗎!這也是為了你們好啊~避免日後的大吵甚至冷戰
或是感情裂痕啊!
拿吃魚的事來說好了,後來我先生自己會主動吃所有餐桌上的東西,讓他媽媽知道他長大
了不挑食了,所以我知道他有把我在意的事聽進去,也願意調整(於是我也被他上進的心
感動~)於是又覺得他很帥了!
總之,走到婚姻是兩個人,但走進婚姻就變一群人了,這群人實在很想說我的婚姻是關你
們什麼事,但實在是也無法這樣拋開....所以只能原先的兩個人為對方多付出一點心力,
並告訴自己以後不要變成這種麻煩的祖宗十八代....
內容若有傷眼或不妥請見諒並告知,我會儘早刪除。感謝
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