老公很嘮叨怎麼辦消失
結婚快四年了
老公什麼都好就是太嘮叨
一件事可以重複叨唸很多次
然後要逼我給他他想要聽的回應才肯罷休
但剛好我卻是脾氣來的很快
有話直說,不喜歡憋在心裡默默忍受的那種人
這就麻煩了
常常是我老公為了一件事在唸我
我剛開始都不想回應或直接跟他說他的要求我達不到
念第二次我就會直接跟他說不要再唸了
他沒得到他要的答案他就會繼續唸
到第三次重複唸同樣的事情的時候
我就爆炸了
我會覺得有完沒完啊
就已經跟你說我做不到了是怎樣
然後整個就抓狂失控了
幾乎每次都是這樣
然後又要被他指控我脾氣差
我真的不知道要如何處理
會覺得已經開口制止他不要再唸了
他依然繼續執著的要我說出好我下次會改進或是我知道錯了之類的回應
然後我跟浩克一樣暴怒了
他又說我愛生氣
真的很想當場把他踹飛
不知道大家有沒有什麼建議可以讓我跳脫這個循環
真的有點受不了了
他對他家人也是這樣
很喜歡唸超過三次
我在旁邊聽了我有時都會出聲制止他
覺得有完沒完啊
爸就已經知道怎麼做了。為何還要重複唸
因為在我自己原生家庭是不可能這樣跟長輩說話的
還是下次他再唸我就直接出聲幫他計數
看他唸到第幾次
第二次我就警告他說再一次我要爆炸了
但我想想他這麼固執應該還是會執意要我說出他想聽到的回應
但我就是不想說啊
因為他有的要求我就是不想做或達不到
該怎麼辦呢
真的很困擾我
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