[心情] 我要求親子旅遊很過份嗎?消失
結婚四年,大寶兩歲多了
目前我肚子還有二寶,自從大寶出生我全職帶他,我知道有小孩真的會犧牲很多生活品質
包括我也很想出國玩
我先生ㄧ年帶我和大寶出遠門玩不超過兩次
最近的ㄧ次出遠門住宿是去年10月去墾丁
還是我跟他大吵ㄧ架他才妥協的
每次我提出要求他都不是很想出遠門
頂多可能鄰近的高雄走ㄧ走(我們是台南人)
然後就趕著五點前開車回家說要倒垃圾
(明明家裡還有公公在可以幫忙倒)
就是ㄧ種敷衍我的感覺
反而常常是公婆說要出去高雄嘉義台南縣的景點走走,ㄧ台車擠了小叔公婆外加公公ㄧ定
要帶著80歲奶奶,我就要擠在中間也沒辦法有舒服的姿勢睡覺.....,然後還要先規劃好
去吃的餐廳跟地點,不然難搞的婆婆會在車上念整路,吃到不合她味口的也要念,導航找
不到路也要念,最煩的是在車上公婆跟奶奶還會講親戚有的沒的八卦跟酸言酸語,我真的
非常討厭跟他們出去....原則上我認為帶上公婆那根本不叫親子旅遊,累死開車的人跟媳
婦而已
我不知道有小孩的各位
你們出門玩的頻率高嗎?
我常常看我朋友大家無論再忙都會安排親子旅遊,連當軍人的朋友也是!
剛剛跟先生因為這件事吵架
我說我朋友誰誰誰人家都會帶老婆孩子出去玩
他連帶我們去安平的公園、奇美博物館散步都能拿出來說,但是這叫旅遊嗎???我不懂
我要求很過份??
ㄧ開始是好好跟他溝通,他反而擺出ㄧ副不想聽的嘴臉,氣得我不想多說了!
我認為ㄧ個家庭,我們經常安排旅遊有一個很美好的回憶不是挺好的?
但他認為小孩這麼小又沒有什麼記憶
等二寶生了我看我更別指望想要去哪裡玩
我真的不想每次出去旅遊都要靠大吵才能有旅遊!!
是否同意記者抄文:NO
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永遠不說話
擺出一臉不是很想聽的樣子
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