Re: [求助] 老公沒有開店的自覺 怎麼溝通
※ 引述《skyqiu (貓咪想要家)》之銘言:
: 例如 我在社工的工作時 他認為太危險 薪水低
: 例如 我在當保母的時候 他覺得帶小孩太累
: 例如 我在當安親班老師 他覺得同事機車制度差家長恐龍
: 只要他覺得這份工作不理想的時候
: 就會希望我不要做了
: 我的個性不愛吵架 能溝通就溝通 不能溝通能接受就妥協 真的無法接受才會力抗到底
: 某個程度我也寵壞老公
: 讓他將他的喜好投射在我身上 只能依照他的喜好生活
節錄原文, 原po跟大家看到這邊, 有沒有似曾相識的感覺?
是的, "[心情] 長輩的挑剔壞了搬新家的喜悅", 原po就跟文中的愛挑剔的父母一樣
老愛將她的喜好投射在原po身上
原po提到的社工/保母/安親班老師, 老公不愛
但我敢保證, 即使你當了年收兩百萬的高階主管, 或是現在的店年收三百萬
他還是可以很容易的挑出東西來唸
沒轍, 只能像https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/marriage/M.1467172680.A.C6C.html這篇一樣
靠直接認真的當面溝通來解決, 讓他知道他關心你的方式錯了, 會適得其反
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