[閒聊] 要拼第三胎嗎?
是否同意記者抄文:NO
我目前有兩個小孩,老大三歲半
老二8m,兩個都是女孩
老公是獨子,上面有四個姐姐
結婚之前就有想過會有生男孩的壓力
但沒想過我會連生兩個女兒
老二剛出生去給算命的取名
婆婆ㄧ回來就說算命的說她八字好
會帶「茶壺」
最近老公也不斷洗腦老大
讓她來跟我說想要弟弟
可是我一點都不想生啊
我前兩胎都孕吐
第二胎時已是高齡產婦
後期還出血臥床了一陣子
懷第三胎的話不就更慘了
再說第三胎就一定會是男的嗎
當初懷第一胎前
算命的說我會生一胎男的或雙胞胎女孩
還不是不準
若生第三胎還是沒有男生
豈不是要生第四胎?
我這樣問老公,他叫我不要先烏鴉嘴...
另外我們對小孩的教養觀念有落差
也讓我不想再生一個來湊熱鬧
舉例來說,老二出生後
原本白天由外婆照顧的老大去讀幼幼班
換老二給外婆帶
但這段日子老大變成愛哭公主
常為了一些小事生氣大哭
面對哭泣的老大
爸爸會狠打她屁股叫她不要哭
同住的公公會說要把她抓出去丟
這讓我相當怒,為此還跟他們父子吵架
我覺姐姐是因妹妹出生及環境改變
情緒上有些變化,應設法疏導
用打的不能解決問題
對於生老三
我真的一點興趣也沒有
甚至說我產後都陪孩子睡
連開機的慾望都沒有
下班回家還很怕老大又哭
被公公說不會帶小孩
現在覺得去上班還比回家開心
還是我該把老公放生
不要當他們家無法傳宗接代的罪人?
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