Re: [求助] 結婚7年還是無法開口叫爸媽
看板marriage作者nnickly (兔寶阿快咬斷我的噴錢機)時間8年前 (2016/05/12 19:41)推噓31(47推 16噓 135→)留言198則, 55人參與討論串3/6 (看更多)
謝謝大家的建議...
不否認...因為家庭因素我本身真的很自卑,也很敏感
其實不只婆家,連姑姑、阿姨之類的接觸我也很排斥
所謂的親情對我而言都好噁心
這也是我沒辦法生小孩的原因
至於經濟方面
我是唸護理出身
畢業後為了能多賺一點錢
那時候都是長期值大夜班
所以我不認為在幫助我弟妹的同時
在家庭的開銷上需要先生多負擔什麼
而結婚時我們也存有一筆結婚基金
也講好彰化宴客部分紅包都給他們收
至於日期也許是我反應過度
但是經過討論之後婆家方面並沒有要改期的打算
所以我才會退婚紗 登記而已
不可否認
婚前我曾經很感激婆家那裡可以允許讓我帶弟妹一起吃年夜飯
但包含我 都還是客人的狀態
也不會問這麼多
但是婚後我真的感覺到態度完全不同
而我弟妹也長大了
也許只是老人家的閒聊
也許又是我的自卑心發作
每年都只問錢...真的很不舒服
也因為本身唸護理的關係
所以先生才會討論由我們來照顧公婆
他覺得很多事情都是我想太多
根本沒有這麼嚴重
其實我真的也不希望讓他那麼為難
我也想盡量去試
可是真的好難...
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他不是...有慢性疾病需要長期服藥
※ 編輯: nnickly (220.136.162.32), 05/12/2016 19:49:42
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我有長期在看精神科 也按時服藥...可是還是放不下...
※ 編輯: nnickly (220.136.162.32), 05/12/2016 20:00:09
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