[求助] 婚後感情淡了
是否同意記者抄文:NO
想請問大家,是否有我類似的情形?我該怎麼辦?
我們結婚3年多,有個1.5y的小孩。
在小孩出生之前,感情不錯,但不算轟轟烈烈。
小孩出生後,感情急轉直下,性生活幾乎停擺。
生活以小孩為重心(我們沒有爸媽可以幫忙帶),
我們彼此的關係比較像是teammate,不是情人。
在一起做很多事只是流於形式,一點浪漫甜蜜的感覺也沒有。
我們會試著一起看電影、旅遊、出去吃飯等等,都像是例行公事。
我開始對於他的缺點不能包容,他對我來說像是室友。一起生活的室友。
想請問版友,在一起久了以後都會這樣嗎?我對婚姻是否有不切實際的浪漫期待?
我會告訴自己要多努力,但完全提不起勁。
這算感情走到盡頭了嗎?我該怎麼辦?
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每個人想追求的人生不一樣。
我會問我自己:「這真的是我要的人生嗎?一輩子這樣過下去」
我們現在想要第二個小孩,我甚至會問我自己:「真的要跟這個人養第二個小孩嗎?」
→ duoduo554553: 要一起走到最後,沒有意外的話,還挺久的 04/17 11:48
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我們出門回家都有親親。但我內心無感,只是形式上敷衍。
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同意,小孩是夫妻之間最大難關。但夫妻也可能因為小孩而維持婚姻。
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