[閒聊] 差不多下了90%的決心了
結婚3年了,其實我跟另一半感情實際上不錯
證據是她幾乎天天會跟我討抱討親
但我已經2年藉口怕癢,幾乎不親她不抱她,不知道她有無發現?
以上是建立在我刻意讓自己很麻木上
問題是出在生or不生
婚前其實是她主動問我的,我說想要兩寶,她沒表反對,但回想起來像是套我底線
婚後不生第一個理由是,她跟久久碰面的學弟聚餐(1男1女)
沒跟我說去哪吃、吃到幾點? 到9點多沒消沒息,我大怒
她覺得沒安全感、很受傷(認為遲早會離),所以不想生了
之後陸續有隱隱約約透露,小孩子會影響她的生活品質(平均一年出國3次,號稱愛旅行)
有一次是講白,相愛的兩人為什麼不能就這樣兩人一起白頭偕老之類的
後來不生的理由是,她撞到尾椎,後來又有兩次出國(跟我岳父母)摔倒
她覺得她好多這類舊傷無法生
生活中,
基本上家用全都是我出,後來小筆的、或她自己的東西她會出
(但這也是後來才慢慢協調出來的)
所以基本上她的年收(約70~80萬),應該85%以上都是自由運用(存or花)
家事我做一半以上(含煮飯),她大概是用機器的(洗碗機/洗衣機)
和打掃(因為她有潔癖,要自己掌控),不丟洗碗機的大鍋等也是我刷
幾乎從沒幫我準備過早餐,因為愛睡咩,都是我早起煮或出去買
性生活方面,
婚後大概只做過5次吧,因為她不想生,我也就...
還沒跟女生無套做過算魯嗎?
眼看同事朋友都有小孩了,甚至二寶都出來了
我好羨慕也好悲憤
走在路上看到孕婦有時會忍不住多看兩眼(這樣算變態嗎?)
我知道我不可能就這樣沒有孩子跟她過一輩子
所以我已經下了90%的決心,明年二月吧,直接拿給她請她簽
請她把那格還給我
現在反而在想對岳父不好意思,因為岳父人不錯,讓他傷心有點過意不去
唉
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