[閒聊] 為何一起住才孝順
(手機排版請見諒,文長慎入)今年過年終於搬出去住了,坦白說公婆不是不好但年齡差太
多真的很多觀念跟習慣很難契合,一起住真是災難一場。
目前跟老公育一女2歲,結婚才一起住5人住3房20出頭坪老公寓。我跟老公都做業務性質
工作(同公司)壓力一定有,公婆79/73Y常5'6點起床,公公重聽嗓門又大,但我們固定7點
45起床準備上班,我常5'6點被吵醒再瞇到起床時間結果更累,但老公習慣了睡很死沒差
,晚上公婆也都會常起床上廁所,我常常一晚被吵醒個1'2次,長期睡不好真的超躁鬱的
,這是生活習慣不同無法改變。
公婆對老公很寵(老么),老公在家不用做任何家事,公公偶爾會幫忙托地而已,但我認為
家事要分工,叫我老公偶爾幫女兒換尿布或洗碗之類換來婆婆不悅。婆婆好媳婦模式→假
日七點起床洗衣服(衣服才可以曬到太陽),最好至少煮一餐,假日如果可以最好一大早陪
她去市場買菜,她沒逼我但沒做到會很明顯不開心,之前還跟我媽暗示我假日睡很晚(約8
點多9點那邊),但老實說平日睡不好假日只想補眠阿阿阿~
我們買車因沒車位,只要想開車出門公婆就會一直說不要開回來會沒位= =,當初要買什
麼牌子公公說一定要買N牌(我們自己出錢)本來是想買T牌,但我是覺得沒差,只是諸如此
類小事常被東管西管。
照顧女兒常把她包的像粽子,老說孩子手冰,凍慘了我都不給她多穿(解釋過沒用)也會說
女兒都不吃飯好瘦,跟鄰居XX比太小隻之類的。
再來一直希望我們買房(台北市)但現在我跟老公覺得太貴,公婆就說親戚xx夫妻都公務員
吃醬菜配白飯名下好幾棟,隔壁鄰居20幾坪住6,7個人,睡上下鋪,夏天全家擠一間開冷
氣不是住的好好的,我跟老公出國,吃餐廳太浪費(我們年收加起來180~200)約他們去旅
遊一直說住4人房比較省...
生活在一起壓力真的蠻大的,但除此之外公婆很幫忙,上班回家孩子都洗好弄好,也都會
準備早餐給我們吃,我很感謝公婆幫忙,但生活習慣跟觀念真的差太多,年初吵一架(叫
老公洗碗被婆婆大罵)搬出來住了。
今天老公去接孩子公公說了,如果搬回去以後房子就給我們,不搬回去他們就要把房子賣
了外面租房子,不強迫我們(我們本來就沒想過房子是我們的阿@@)好像我們不搬回去很不
孝,竟然要老人家去租房。老公說尊重我,不過為何住一起明明雙方都不開心卻一定要一
起住才孝順?我們幾乎天天跑婆家阿(騎車5分鐘)偶爾長待維持距離美感不是挺好的嗎?
我還是堅持住外面喇其實~
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