[心情] 原來這才是最具殺傷力的回應
就算我沒有惱人的婆媳問題(因為不同住)
但是豬隊友的種種行徑也著實讓我痛苦
1.對寶寶漠不關心
講漠不關心也言過其實
至少在寶寶心情好時會陪她玩
但僅限寶寶心情好,寶寶歡或大哭就兇我和寶寶
說寶寶不知道在盧什麼(她才七個月耶!)
說我都不關心小孩(???剛剛是你在陪她玩耶!)
寶寶哪一天打哪一劑預防針也不知道
現在喝奶喝到幾c.c也不知道
不知道也不問一下,反正我知道就好了
唯一一次幫寶寶換尿布換到火大後就沒再換過了
唯一一次幫寶寶穿紗布衣被我媽看到
我媽就覺得這個女婿好棒棒,這個女兒好差勁
晚上即便我睡著,他還在玩手遊
寶寶哭了也是踢我起來哄,他繼續玩
他以前養一隻小馬爾濟斯(已往生,太老)
還會自己煮東西給牠吃,幫牠洗澡,刷牙,修指甲
但這些從來沒對女兒做過
女兒不如一隻狗嗎?
2.對我講話像對傭人或下屬
這一點真的是婚後才露出本性,我措手不及
他總是能把一句簡單的話講得很嗆!譬如:
"喂!去泡奶!"
"妳沒聽到小孩哭嗎?去哄啊!"
"這東西以後不要煮了,難吃!"
"醫生剛剛講的有聽進去嗎?"(沒聽進去的是你吧)
"放假就是要回婆家啊!不然咧!"
"手受傷?就用不痛的那隻手啊,自己喬姿勢啊!"
"寶寶需要哪些東西自己上網看啊!"
"桌上帳單去繳一繳!"
反正就是常用"命令"或是"反問"的語氣講話
今天我真的無須再忍
把所有對他的不滿洋洋灑灑一大篇line給他
過了許久(已讀),他只回...
"隨便妳怎麼講,我拿妳沒辦法"
我打了這麼一大篇,他只回了這麼一句
而且好像還是我在無理取鬧
我以前是隱忍,所以誤以為他不知道我的感受
原來他不是不知道他那些行為
而是根本不覺得這有什麼不對!
真的該考慮認賠殺出了...
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