[心情] 二寶從母姓
在大寶(男孩)3Y之際,也終於如願順利懷上二寶了,我們都很開心
昨晚老公提醒我,二寶不管男女,就從母姓 (老公真的很疼我也開明)
其實是當初結婚時,我娘家媽媽的一個期望,希望如果生兩個男孩,第二個可以從母性
我娘家只有我跟我妹兩個女兒,雖然我一直很排斥傳統重男輕女的觀念
但娘家父母對我們很疼愛,很用心栽培養育我們,
現在壓力來了,我覺得不管兒子女兒都很好,都是我們的寶貝
逛街時看到女孩的東西都會狂冒粉紅泡泡或看到朋友有女兒也都很羨慕
但一想到媽媽的期望,又怕她落空
(其實她也知道女兒很好,但就是跳不出沒有兒子的遺憾)
第一胎反而沒這個困擾,因為婆家沒有生小孩或性別的壓力
(我婆婆甚至知道大寶是男生,她說從母姓也可以,反而是我媽媽又覺得不妥 XD)
還有想請問板上,有從母性的例子嗎? 我一直很擔心以後小孩不同姓造成的困擾
反而我先生一直叫我不要庸人自擾想太多,好好教育比較重要,
並不會因為姓氏而影響手足的感情,總覺得我開始產前憂鬱了......
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