[心情] 老公出國玩快回來了,要臭臉嗎?!
看板marriage作者hardgoing (擇我所愛 愛我所選)時間9年前 (2015/04/06 17:22)推噓24(66推 42噓 215→)留言323則, 115人參與討論串1/4 (看更多)
這個清明連假,老公公司員工旅遊,上星期四一大早就出門去了,等下七點多會回到家。
他留下一個四歲半+八個月大的小孩,自己消遙去,而我一個人單打獨鬥兩個小孩五天到
現在。
心情只有愈來愈不爽可形容……
小的在哭不睡,大的叫我帶她去公園,真的很想揍人。(期間還有大的咳嗽,小的不斷鼻
涕流)
當初跟他講過沒有很想他去(但他還是去了)。我沒跟的原因有:
1.他說這次行程攜帶眷屬不划算。(行程有些是公司聚會活動)
2.我工作關係若出國得請示上級。
3.娘家媽媽平時白天就是小的保姆,晚上又得照顧失婚弟弟的兩個小孩,不好意思再把小
孩托她照顧出國玩。
以上這些因素加總,所以我沒跟出國玩。
是我自己不夠強勢,當初就該直接說不準他去嗎?然後既然讓對方去了,就不該事後哭夭
是嗎?
有沒有一個選項是:他自己一開始就選擇不去?!(有沒有人老公是這樣的?)
我現在只能告訴自己:轉念,轉念,轉念……(如連假不用回婆家,可以體驗單親生活,
他平時工作很辛勞之類的。)
唉……婚姻就是一個“忍”字是嗎?
他回來我臭臉,冷處理,是最好的方式嗎?!
還是既然都已撐到尾聲了,應該繼續假面下去?反而讓他內疚到底?
換得更多好日子!?
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