[求助] 跟婆家不能保持距離嗎?消失
說真的,現在覺得自己老公問題很大
但他不覺得他有問題,他覺得問題都是我(自私 小氣 不能包容他家人)
我覺得我有這樣的婆婆及小叔已經很不幸了...詳見(房子不想借爛人住一文)
我頂多只能演表面功夫 偶爾回家及過年逢場作戲
但我老公一直說那也是他家人,他希望我和他家人和平相處
所以他常想製造很多機會,讓公婆及小叔來和我相處
比如 找他們來我們家住 然後我們夫妻又因此事鬧得不開心
我不知道別的媳婦跟婆家熟不熟?一定要保持很熱絡嗎?
我不想熱絡 只想作表面 相敬如賓(冰)
我覺得我這輩子真的只能做到這樣
但我先生一直想要我和他們很融洽
甚至多次主動邀請小叔來家裡吃喝玩住
他說如果他父母死了,就是他的手足和他最親
我為什麼不能配合他?總是要拒絕他家人
他就是要拉著我要跟他家人和樂融融的相處
我跟他說你要你自己去,我不會阻止你去
但你不要拖我下水陪你演戲
可是他就是無法接受我離他家人遠遠的 我會和婆家人見面,會問候 但熱絡不起來
真不知道到底是我的問題
還是他的問題?
永遠都一直吵這個事情 只要想到他家人就吵
我是跟他結婚,又不是跟他全家人結婚
為什麼我要跟他全家人很熟 唉
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