Re: [求助] 太太留停屆期卻不想回職場
※ 引述《kazada (黑心商品)》之銘言:
: 小的與太太新婚一年多,生了一對兒子,
: 太太自產假放完後接著請留職停薪9個月,
: 留停期間太太與小孩皆在娘家生活,
: 因小的母親仍在工作無法退休,父親又不擅帶小孩
: 不得已請丈人他們協助照顧,只是.....
這點不懂,一個人帶不來所以請岳父幫忙
: 而且可以明顯感受到丈人某部分替我們帶小孩的不耐煩,
兩隻很歡的XD
: 小的希望太太可以留停到期就把小孩帶回來,白天托嬰中心晚上自己帶
: 但是!太太希望延長留停到小孩兩歲,理由是兩歲前媽媽在小孩身邊陪伴很重要
: 因為他看了網路的某篇文章,產生了這個強烈的認知...
我挺你太太,但不是這原因
: 小的理由如下:
: 1.收入可以恢復正常:
: 小的房貸是月薪的1/2以上,太太又爭氣的一次兩個
: 太太歲數已34,再延下去,公司是資方市場,很可能再延回來就被惡搞沒工作了
: 要找到目前離家15分鐘車程又月薪有3萬的對她來說不是易事,
你確定現在回不會被惡搞嗎
在前公司
我休育嬰半年也是被惡搞...只是搞我的人沒本事被更上面逼走
我曾協助的一個年輕女同事被惡搞
她休育嬰不到一週就下新令,回任要人資同意
(X的,你自己不敢休育嬰去整其他女人)
不管育嬰留停多久,人家想因育嬰整你太太就是會整
: 2.不用奔波看小孩:
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: 3.可以照自己的想法去帶
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: 小的充滿無力感,對妻子更是憤怒,如此不明事理還對公婆無禮
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: 到底我該怎麼做??希望有捧友可以為我指點迷津!拜託拜託..
雙寶的托育費大概會吃掉尊夫人所有的薪水,搞不好還要倒貼
你們的狀況也難找到保母,只能送託嬰中心
(有對生雙胞胎的同事,雙寶送不同保母鬧脾氣,最後太太辭職帶小孩)
尊夫人要繼續留停可以,請她搬回家
自己一個人帶...不要增加老父(岳父)的負擔
反正育嬰留停結束公司不給回,還是得付資遣費給尊夫人
記得堅持兩年後一定要她回任,就算被逼走也還有資遣費,
就業保險有一年有失業給付(有雙寶可領八成薪)
不要傻傻的讓她自己辭職喔...
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