Re: [苦惱] 還要生小孩嗎?
我今年56歲,為了弭補當了20幾年家庭主婦的遺憾,人家都要退休了
我這兩年卻跑去上班(兼職),我待過事務所會記外帳,我目前在一家伴手禮
烘培工作室幫忙,雖然我的孩子們反對,也不解我為何要上班,但我就是喜歡
跟同事相處,被肯定的感覺,算是圓夢!
我建議妳先出去工作,肯定自己,把老公"留校查看"如何?我自己的婚姻
經驗,有諸多跟妳相似之處,因為我婆家很傳統,男人工作賺錢,其他一律不管
生了兩個孩子,老公不曾陪過產檢,孩子病了.我自己處理!我老公是"月光族"
是每天踩著月光回家的人,孩子的成長中老是缺席....
我曾經試著出去工作,但老是被體弱多病的孩子招回,因為孩子需要我
以致我背負著家庭主婦沒有貢獻的包袱,這樣過了這麼多年!但我也包辦了
公婆所有看慢性病跟開刀所有大小事,目前婆婆癱瘓臥病在床,身上插管
有請專業的照顧,但我需隨時待命處理!
我的婚姻倒吃甘蔗,一晃就是30幾年,冷暖自知,不言而喻!因為我已經有了
孩子,跟妳的情況不同,我願意為自己的選擇負責,我老公經過歲月的磨練有改變
現在我上班他會幫忙洗碗倒垃圾....老實說:這些事他以前的字典裡不可能發生!
相信我的年代比我辛苦的更多,現在的妳有更多選擇,命運在自己手中,加油吧!
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