[心情] 幼兒園求學延伸出的家庭革命
前提
公婆平日幫忙帶大寶
婆媳相處也都算融洽
二寶預計年底出生
想說先讓大寶上學
減輕公婆帶小孩的辛勞
很幸運的抽到離娘家較近公立的幼兒園
告知婆家九月開始要送小孩去上學
這個決定卻爆發了強烈的家庭革命
公婆認為:
1.媳婦覺得公婆帶小孩帶得不好,所以要把小孩帶走
2.大寶還小(報名滿兩歲的幼幼班),不要讓他去上幼兒園
3.帶兩個小孩對他們來說是小case
4.幼兒園要念離婆家近的,阿公要接他下課
還說出狠話要斷關係
說把大寶帶去唸書的話
一輩子都不會原諒媳婦
二寶也不會再幫我們帶
讓我覺得很不可思議的是...原來在這個家媳婦是外來者
連基本幫小孩決定唸書的小事都無法發聲
當下我和老公說
既然在公婆的眼中我已經黑掉了
我可以黑得更徹底
為了避免你夾在中間難做人
我們離婚吧
(最壞的打算我都準備好了)
老公悠悠的說一句
肚子還有二寶,別衝動
雖說老公也不太贊成這麼早送大寶去幼兒園
至少是可以溝通的
公婆那邊完全無解
現在是懸案
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