[苦惱] 老公一直戒不掉菸癮
因為算是相親認識的
剛認識時
得知他戒菸了,不抽菸了
覺得這人可以繼續
就在決定交往後,卻意外發現他偶爾還是會偷抽菸
為此,曾經大吵過三次架
我都說是為他好,不希望他抽
也強調,我擇偶條件是不抽菸,如果他想抽,請去找一個可以接受的
也因此他都說,他會戒,這是最後一次了
最近一次,第四次發現他又偷抽菸
是的,這次身分我變成老婆了
雖然我沒再怕離婚
但是身邊的人都認為我太小題大作了
為了戒不了菸而離婚,太誇張
但我真的很在乎這點啊!!!!
超生氣...好生氣....卻又不能做什麼的感覺超氣的!
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謝謝大家熱烈的提供意見,剛PO文時因為太氣憤
很多事情沒說清楚
他一開始戒菸是認識我前一個月,起因是因為他養了一隻貓(不想讓貓聞煙味)
第一次發現他抽菸,是因為新同事會抽又跟著抽了
之後每次都是他受不了同事誘惑偷抽
第二次發現,我們買了尼古清
第三次發現,我們去了戒菸診所
最近,他說他同事因為第二個小孩也出生了,所以他同事戒菸了
我大喜,想說誘因不見了加上去完戒菸診所他也沒再抽了
放心之餘,又發現了第四次
我覺得我沒轍了,卻又很不甘心
就像有人提到的,我最生氣是他破壞我們之間的約定吧!
他的菸齡很久了,從18歲就抽到現在34歲...
真的很難,但是他是成功過一陣子的啊!
但都在大約半年後破功了...(無言)
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