[苦惱] 老婆不想去工作
家中成員:夫妻+2個小朋友
大寶 1y6m,二寶0y5m
無貸款
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白天:老婆媽+老婆帶2個小孩
晚上:我跟老婆帶兩個小孩
下班回家後,我也會幫忙洗奶瓶
照顧小孩吃喝拉灑、哄小孩睡睡,
並不是沒事翹二郎腿
但幾次跟老婆溝通,希望他也去上班
未來一個小朋友給保母
(南部保母每月約12000~15000)
或是拖嬰中心也ok
但每次跟老婆提到希望她去工作
雙薪家庭還是比較輕鬆
老婆總回應:我沒有排斥工作啊
但是時間表呢?在追問下去,老婆就惱羞成怒
不排斥工作?想要工作?是完全不同的兩件事
真不知道如何跟她溝通?
有次老婆跟我抱怨帶小孩很累,
於是我提議那下個月開始,
由老婆上班我帶小孩,
換老婆繳家用給我,
角色互換半年看看,她又不高興~
有時候真的覺的...老婆~你來自星星嗎??
或是你在逃避什麼啊!
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謝謝大家的回應,但並不需要筆戰或是回應幻想。
希望老婆去工作,除希望維持雙薪家庭。
也因為跟職場脫節太久,未來較不容易回到職場。
另外,離開太久,重新工作薪水會被砍低。
也容易導致衍生:反正新水不夠高,乾脆辭職的念頭。
比較傾向知道老婆明確規劃的時間點。
而希望瞭解恰當溝通方式?故發此文。
對於討拍沒興趣,只想解決問題。
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※ 編輯: accr0982 (211.74.251.178), 03/31/2014 23:23:10
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