[討拍] 我是永遠的外人
結婚一年又幾天,產後這三個多月大小吵不斷,今天終於在婆家抓狂了。起床吃早餐後婆婆要帶兒子去她的娘家看阿祖,因我要擠母乳,需要一些時間,總共擠了一小時,婆婆在樓下催老公,我一邊擠一邊叫老公幫忙洗昨晚的奶瓶跟衣服,總算擠好一餐的量,老公上來樓上直碎念,又念我這媳婦什麼事都沒做...,爲了什麼事都沒做這種話,已經吵過很多次,(請育嬰假中),我就在樓上大罵,越想越生氣,就拿著擠奶器到一樓丟到老公懷裡,叫他嘗嘗看被那條電線綁著一天五小時的感覺。此時,婆婆站起來大罵,你怎可以在我面前打我兒子,還要拉我坐下來說清楚講明白ꄊA當下我氣瘋了,沖上四樓,一聽到兒子哭我立刻下樓道歉,先安撫婆婆情緒,然後上樓撫平情緒,還要去阿祖家。但我永遠記得,婆婆講那句話的情緒跟表情,我知道我永遠是外人。事後一直跟我說什麼都給你們買最好的,婆婆的口頭禪就是這個一斤...元,這有機的...。晚上又提了一次,問我們吵架的原因,又補了幾句,老公上班還要買午晚餐給我也很累阿,小孩乖是很好,哭起來也很累人,老公在我order下也會幫忙洗奶瓶阿...。故事結束,碎念不是打不是罵,但三個多月來講我什麼事都沒做,言語的壓力,我該怎麼解釋,反正也不用解釋了,沒人要聽。我後悔的第ꐊ@件事,是結婚,好男朋友不等於好老公,我後悔拿結婚綁住自己,我的單身生活豐富又快樂。第二後悔的是在婆家吵架,因為這只是打掉自己的尊嚴,我會記得再也不在婆家發飆,因為我抱著的是他們的孫子,罵的是他們的兒子,我是外人。
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