[閒聊] 雙薪夫妻系列有感
雖然我還沒結婚,但我發現那篇跟我朋友發生的超類似。
(如有雷同,請不要對號入坐,謝謝~)
背景:
女生為北部人,家中排行最小,上有已婚哥哥
男為南部人,獨子
目前在北部一起擔任公職(月收入約為五萬),
男跟女生在工作時約交往一年後,女生主動要結婚,
由於女生出社會的早,當時男生說可是沒存款要結婚很困難,
女友主動說,沒關係我先借你一百萬(寫借據),於是兩個人歡喜的辦完喜宴。
男生悲慘的人生即將展開。
結婚兩年內,女生要求男每月要付家庭租屋一萬五,家庭支出兩萬,
另外要再還女生一萬元的生活費,你沒看錯,
然後她每天給男一百(你真的沒看錯),剩下的呢?女的說~預備金阿。
這兩年內,女說不願意跟公婆相處,因此她回來探望婆家的次數約三次,
男生是獨子,希望女可以考慮一起下來南部工作,女,就會開始暴走,
說的話跟上一篇一樣:女兒就不是人!為什麼我不能在北部陪爸媽!
男的表示妳還有兩個哥哥和嫂嫂,她……又會開始暴走。
男的每週陪女的回娘家,期待娘家人可勸勸女,畢竟兩老在鄉下也需要人照顧。
嗯…娘家人就說:女兒也是自己孩子(可是卻標準不一,嫂嫂就得留在家)
最後男爆發點:
1.男生希望女下班時順道買個便當,女的卻說:要花到自己的錢,所以不願意買。
(其實男當天值班時花了五十買老婆婆的玉蘭花)身上真的沒錢。
2.男老父母親的房屋老舊,希望可以請男幫忙出十萬整修,
女暴走說~這是家裡的錢,不可以動,要男去外面貸款。
3.男的說,乾脆離婚好了,連幫忙自己爸媽都要看她臉色,
女的很絕,她說好,那你跟我借的一百萬,本金加利息還我,
另外離婚的贍養費,離了婚的女人就是弱者,你都要賠。
故事的結尾是,我們這群朋友非常非常的替他和老父母親感到難過,
卻又不敢勸離(其實有勸XD),但畢竟人生都是自己選的,
只是奉勸大家夫妻真的是共同體,彼此的尊重同理都要有。
我朋友真的是那種愛妻,又老實的人,女要他把臉書刪除、
女生朋友通訊都刪掉,他都照做,希望不要再有下一個受害者(咦,
由其是金錢,夫妻一定要有共識,以免發生像我朋友的憾事(拭淚。
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