[討論] 夫妻職業不同,怎麼交流?消失
想請教大家,若夫妻工作不相同,會在下班後交流工作上的事嗎?
因為原生家庭的父母職業都相同
所以從小都看爸媽討論工作上的事,習以為常
其實有時候在下班後,可以找個人談談工作上的事是一種抒發的管道
特別是工作上發生不愉快的時候
重點並不是要討論出啥麼結果,只是講出心中的不快(並非每天講,很久才說一次)
先生是工程師 我的工作則是教育方面
記得有一次在教學遇到了瓶頸,遇到超難搞的學生,(所有老師都會退避三舍的學生)
那時只是跟先生抱怨了一下
沒想到他就當場抓狂,對我劈頭罵一頓
指我是濫草莓
說我只是遇到幾個小屁孩,根本不算啥麼
(明明現在的小屁孩上新聞的一堆,打老師,和老師槓上)
哪像他在公司還有內部鬥爭,小人文化,機車上司
意指我的抗壓力太差,並說他的才是真正的考驗
從這次以後,我在家中就幾乎不提工作的事了
感覺跟同事分享 還能彼此打氣加油 互相扶持
跟先生分享卻被潑了一盆冷水 雖然他事後有為他的態度道歉
但我總覺得跟他講~有一種二次傷害的感覺
不知其他不同行業的夫妻 怎麼去溝通交流呢?
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