Re: [心情] 很扯的事,除夕夜婆家把媳婦趕出門了
也許我要補充一下
我並沒有不疼老婆哦
除了前面提過的,她幾乎不用勞力與物質付出外
假日她想去哪就帶去哪,想吃啥就帶她吃啥,事事以她開心為主
我之前出國工作時,怕她無聊還出錢與租車讓她和朋友去環島旅行
認識二年來,我自己也帶她玩遍全台灣
沒多久前我也才訂了機票,橋好了假
準備四月她生日時帶她去她期待己久的日本關西9天瘋狂賞櫻自由行
現在回頭檢視這一切
我是不是太寵她了而害了自己也害了她呢?
我的付出換來什麼?
以這次事件對我來說,換來了忘恩負義的背叛與羞辱不是嗎?
我能不理智斷線跟著嚴重反應嗎?
這幾天不少「過來人」找我聊過
類似我原因離婚的其實不少
這樣心性的女生諮商似乎也沒用
男生也多半跟我一樣
雖得理不饒人的指責無理取鬧之人
但都繼歷了很大的痛苦
明明妳只要一念之間轉一下念頭,大家就可以幸福和諧的過家庭生活啊
為什麼要無理取鬧毀了一切....我們能讓步嗎?
為了她,我們底限都已設很低很低了
但就算是所愛之人,踩到最後底限時,男人是不能讓步的
※ 引述《fk1012 (噓...)》之銘言:
: 有一種東西叫家族諮商,看來你花的起一些錢,要不要試試
: 看起來你妻子不懂如何和人溝通,不會講話,但她強烈要人關心
: 真的很強烈...
: 業務會說場面話,不代表就懂說出心裡的話,或許她希望不用說你就懂
: 說話不一致的人內心會有很大的扭曲,應該是累積很久了,就像心理感冒一樣
: 帶她和專業的談談吧
: 能搞到家人和婆家都討厭她,看來她個性真的不大好
: 但將她丟出門真的不好看,我剛問老公,如果我讓你很生氣,你會丟我出門嗎?
: 丟了,我們兩個就沒了..他說:他真的生氣的話,寧可他自己出去,也不願我受冷
: 你氣完後,有想過她的感受嗎?那個你說我願意!願意一生相守的人
: 你還會有一絲心疼她嗎??沒的話,就放生吧
: 我以為婚姻是不離不棄,就算不好溝通也可以學,用說好的條件沒用的
: 她不愛了,還是感受到沒人要她,所以她放棄全世界的愛了
: 她好孤單,真的很孤單
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