Re: [心情] 很扯的事,除夕夜婆家把媳婦趕出門了
想著這些事情睡不著...
所以再來聊一下舒發一下
感謝著所有推文回文與私信的網友們,我都有看並消化著你們的建議
不少人覺得我反應怪...
請問是否有更好的做法??
若你年前想用自己賺的錢,換掉婆家/娘家的老舊電視
(再加上給父母的紅包,也花不到年終獎金的1/5,所以對我是輕鬆付出)
而另一半不能溝通,堅定的不惜翻臉也要反對到底
如何處置?不買了嗎?
我是講道理到她沒話說時,就去買了...
若另一半因此採取報復手段
放話威脅要做非常不給婆家/娘家面子的事,傷你父母的心
如何處置?
我認為我要做的事合情合理,不應姑息讓步
因此以怨報怨,鬧大了....(雖然我覺得我是以直報怨)
再來是這封告知存證信
大家一面倒的覺得有問題,我高姿態
老實說是很真誠的寫這內容的
我很希望她認錯道歉,事情才能有轉圜
我很佩服版友的智慧,有人說我扯那麼多就是還沒有決心要離
的確是...我糾結著要塊陶去找律師,還是為這婚姻做最後努力
寫這信是想給最後機會
在她已認知道我確有離婚之意,而非隨口說說
仍要意氣用事不肯認錯後
那就只剩永久分居或離婚了
假設相信我那信句句屬實的話,且想給最後轉圜機會的話
是否能有更貼近人情,而非讓人覺得高姿態的勸告說法?
若要委婉要帶感情
說我那麼愛妳,對妳那麼好,妳卻如此對我....類似這樣有比較好?
或是算了,多說無異,就放生,看她會不會自己回來找你談,比較好?
謝謝願意花時間討論與分享意見的網友們...
※ 引述《nqj (黑貓)》之銘言:
: 有些網友推文說批評說把老婆趕出婆家不厚道不應該云云
: 啊你們大概沒好好看完我寫的故事
: 抱歉,她父母親眼看了她嗆聲激怒我那一把年紀的爸爸那場面
: 也說她不應再留在這個家了
: 我簡單擬了個存證信函....
: 丈夫告知妻子事項:
: 除非妻子願意對以下行為真心認錯與道歉補償過失,重新取得丈夫與家中長輩信任,否則
: 丈夫認為:「妻子無維持家庭和諧意願,其待人處事態度,對於丈夫生活及工作安定,與
: 父母親之健康有嚴重負面影響,夫妻不堪共同生活事實仍存在。」
: 1,計較與反對丈夫對其家人之合理付出。
: 2,惡意對雙方父母不敬、不禮貌,及咀咒之言語。
: 3,威脅至丈夫工作場合誹謗丈夫之言語。
: 4,威脅破壞家庭生活安定之言語。
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