[心情] 我的要求過份嗎?
想問一下,我的要求過份嗎?
事情是這樣的,我太太這個月的月經該來卻沒來,我也在想是不是又懷孕了
結果我太太去買驗孕棒,發現有兩條! 這本來應該是要高興的事
我太太就一直吵說會養不起,叫我要想辦法增加收入。
又吵說他的老闆很機車,他想辭去工作,專心做貿易,這樣才養的起
因為他一直想搞貿易,最近都花很多心思在上面,不過目前還沒真正開始
我認為風險太大,應該確定做了比較沒問題再辭工作。
我老婆就一直吵,說當初他就支持我創業,現在我怎麼不支持他?
我應該多花時間去想辦法增加收入才對的.....
我創業到今天,才好不容易達到損益兩平,未來就看有沒有機會賺
不過不會那麼快,所以我就和我太太說,不如用節流的方式,總是有辦法的
所以我的要求是“我要看帳!” 一起來做節流!
結果我老婆就爆發了,一直和我吵!
我們的經濟背景是這樣 我+我太太,每個月約有10萬收入
房子是我爸爸的,所以沒有房租問題,也沒有房貸
目前小孩已經有兩個了,一個一歲,一個三歲....
我的提款卡就交給我太太保管(基本上錢都他管,我一個月就拿3000~5000
當外食費),問題是最近因為我太太開始想搞貿易,需要一筆資金
我就幫他去找信貸,才發現他還有20萬的信貸沒還
我和我太太的帳戶常常處於少於1000元的狀態
在發現信貸沒還的情況下,我開始覺得不應該這樣
因為我太太買給小孩的吃的用的都要最好的,不過這樣還會負債我滿難理解的...
而且他現在貿易還沒開始做,也沒有開始買貨
每次問他,他就大概說了什麼要花多少錢,什麼又要花多少錢一類的
加一加還真的差不多沒錢了.....
不過我總覺得還有省錢的空間,只有作帳才能發現,難到這樣錯了嗎?
和他說完,他就整個爆發,還說什麼以後大家的錢各管各的一類的。
又跑去哭..... 還我三歲的兒子出來和我說媽媽哭了,要我安慰他!
(嗯,兒子很貼心!)
我的要求真的過份了嗎?
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