[討論] 會跟另一伴抱怨事情嗎?
也許越親近的人,越容易超越一條界線
癥結點,在於到底跟老公抱怨生活瑣事,好不???
除了喜樂之外的分享,"怒"這方面會跟對方"分享"嗎
至從嫁給老公後,多多少少遇到很生氣的事情時(尤其在大陸,很多荒唐的事情)
就會想跟先生抱怨個幾句,但也不是真的生氣爆發抓狂那種,就是聊天抱怨XXX那樣
結果總會換來先生一句,你EQ很低這也要生氣
或是...那又怎樣、所以呢? 你想要怎樣??? 你希望聽什麼??
這種既不是安撫,又會讓你感覺帶有一點挑釁味道的話
本來可能不生氣只是說說聊聊,但聽他說完話卻會真的開始生氣抓狂
也許說穿了,事情跟他沒有關係,對他來說就等於"關我屁事,你幹嘛跟我講"
但生活中如果只有"小確幸"可以分享,那可以分享的還真的了了無幾阿
難道要讓自己養成,所有苦都往肚子裡吞嗎???
不知道版友,夫妻相處上,如何應對"怒"的生活瑣事呢???
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