婆婆從還沒結婚就一直念著要抱孫子,
我跟先生將近三十,目前結婚一年多將近兩年,一直都沒有懷孕的消息。
基本的檢查做過了,我跟先生都沒問題,比較麻煩是跟先生平時遠距,
能配合得我也盡量配合,聽到哪有有名的醫生我也很努力跑,
現在正在看中醫調身體,最近看醫生吃中藥到有點厭倦
雖然求子之路我還沒吃到多大苦頭,
但跑醫院看醫生吃中藥,每個月的心情起伏都讓我很"阿詐"
尤其是期待又失落的情緒,反反覆覆。有種習得無助的感覺。
清明回家掃墓,聽到很少連絡的遠親都在說我婆婆在催我趕快生,就莫名感到壓力;
今天婆婆又打給先生問我們什麼時候要生小孩,內心又開始浮躁,
又想到孩子出生可能要跟婆婆搶小孩的問題,突然浮起:不想生了,好煩!!!
我並沒有很想讓婆婆帶小孩,原因只能說每個人看法想法不同,
我對婆婆有些事情不舒服,相對的婆婆平時對我也有些微詞,
我覺得我沒有辦法處理得很好,EQ也不夠高,自己深呼吸後就沒事,
但這又不能很直接跟先生說,我不喜歡你媽的什麼什麼,怎樣怎樣,
這種想法我不知道怎麼跟先生開口討論
不知道是男女思考模式不同還是怎樣?
我覺得男生很多都覺得事情還沒發生想那麼多幹嘛?
可我就是會想很多先擔心起來放....
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