Re: [閒聊] 會後悔結婚嗎?……
看板marriage作者chaiocc (I'm watching you)時間12年前 (2012/03/15 15:49)推噓25(28推 3噓 64→)留言95則, 43人參與討論串30/32 (看更多)
※ 引述《dorakao (這是一塊朵拉糕)》之銘言:
原文吃光光......
我和老公也是在媽媽極力反對下結婚,
老公家庭背景很普通,
父母健在,婆婆在工廠上班,公公在開計程車,弟弟也是個上班族,
家中有房,但有房貸,生活簡簡單單,
但公婆都很開明,人也很隨和。
在婚前,我媽就非常反對我跟老公在一起,
因為我的姊姊嫁的是小開,姊夫家世背景很好,
我媽可能因為生意人當慣了,認為要嫁就要嫁個家世背景好的人,
我媽說過:嫁個家裡背景好的人,家裡能夠給他的資源就多,
在社會上生存就比別人來得輕鬆!
我了解我媽也是希望女兒以後不要受苦,
我媽認為我老公:
1.沒家世
2.沒學歷(我公立大學,老公私立普通大學)
3.在外面的公司上班哪一天會沒工作都不曉得
婚前跟老公交往就歷經了很大的革命,
一直到結婚當天宴客,我媽臉也是很臭。
結婚到現在都2.3年了,
老公為了想取得我媽的認同,
我媽交代什麼事他總是馬上去做,
有時候沒有馬上做到被我媽罵,他也總是笑笑的賠不是,
老公對我非常非常的好,他的體貼從婚前到婚後始終如一,
有時候很心疼老公的付出,
他也總是笑笑的說:沒關係啦!
每次老公假日鐘中午看見只剩我媽一個人在家,
老公總會很貼心的我媽說:媽 你吃了沒?
我媽回:我還不餓
老公會說:還是我買碗湯,你不餓可以喝個湯暖胃,對胃比較好!
但是每次看到明明姊夫跟老公都坐在客廳,
我媽要叫人幫他買東西,
叫的也永遠是老公,不是姐夫,
我心裡看得很生氣,更何況老公是個男人,那尊嚴不無疑踐踏,
老公雖然從來不對我抱怨,但我怎麼可能沒感覺,
老公說,雖然我沒有顯赫家世,讓你媽看不起我,但我想用行動證明,妳嫁給我是對的!
可是我媽的個性自從離婚後變得較偏激,
任何小事都會看不順眼,
我是她的女兒每天成為她的砲灰都快受不了,
最近連老公也開始慢慢感到生活壓力很重.....,
前幾天,我跟老公到樓下買飲料,
房間燈忘記關,
回到家後我媽就是一陣罵,
老公笑笑的跟我媽說:媽,不好意思,下次我們會多注意。
我媽:我已經看你們這樣好幾次了!還要我進去幫你們關!!$^&$$#^%&*.......
(我當時心想...家裡電費我付錢的...妳那麼生氣幹嘛......)
當晚老公什麼也沒說,但我知道他很煩...
雖然我很愛我老公,能遇見他我也覺得自己很幸運,
但是有時候不禁想,是不是我無福消受這份愛,
我不能決定我的父母是誰,
可是我沒有資格要求老公跟我一起受委曲,
好幾次我哭著對老公說:對不起...我很後悔拉你陷入這種困境.....
有時候真的很後悔結婚,覺得自己結婚似乎是個很自私的行為,
讓自己陷入家庭風暴的時候,有個肩膀可以依靠...。
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